Saving money as a wedding guest helps you enjoy the experience instead of worrying about your budget the entire time. The biggest savings come from financially preparing as soon as you hear about upcoming nuptials and being selective about which events you attend. Also consider alternatives to buying a new outfit for every event and splitting costs like lodging and gifts with friends. It’s never worth going into debt to attend a wedding, so stick to what’s realistic for you. True friends (and family) will understand!

A wedding is a one-day event that can have a life-long impact on your finances. Here’s how to plan a truly memorable event you can actually afford.